Change

It called life if there’s some transformation happened or things changed. Well, at least for me. As when things changed means things move. When things move they make some invisible chains that connected each event to the other events. Or in a simple way, action reaction. Well, at least, for me.

People changed. Feelings changed. Even a mindset can change. It isn’t a new thing. And when they changed, some may like it, some may not. As in changing we either become better, or worse. But it also depends on the who sees it.

I experience this lots of time, and also now. Being on the first year of college, means saying, and “See you” to the high school friends. And when we met, we started to recognize some things changed in each of us. Physically or emotionally. Not a surprise.

Each one of us stepped to a new place. We start to try to fit in the new place. Some succeeded, some…well…still trying to, and some gave up. Each one of them (who succeeded, still trying and gave up) have their own way to react to the event. Some may become popular, some become too shy, some become too excited, some become a complete stranger. But there’re some who still stay the same.

Which means not all of us change. And for those who doesn’t change, well, it may be good it may be bad. As in good, they can control them self to not follow the stream. As in bad, well, people need to grow.

I myself like change. It always surprises me in such a surprising way. I have this friend on my high school. He, well, lets just say that he loves to sleep and didn’t like biology, physics, and chemistry that much. But he had this one dream to enter the medical major on college. Short story, he did make it to the medical major on college. And things changed, he study day and night. When I talk to him every time we met he always put some medical terms on our conversation. Surprise!

I changed. I entered art major, and things changed. Especially for my mom. Just say that she doesn’t into art, that much or even at all. But I like the fact that I changed. I see things differently, I met bunch of people who gave me their thoughts. But still, I try not to change too much.

Change. But not too much, not too little. Just enough. Enough to let people recognize that you change. Enough to let people recognize that you’re still the person that they know and they like. Just enough to help you grow.